Relationships & Sex
It is chaotic and stressful to be in a confusing and unstable relationship? Broken and unsuccessful relationships are extremely painful.
Here are a few questions to explore - Why do interpersonal relationships are so important in our lives? Why do a little disturbance in them makes our life confusing, complicated, mysterious and really difficult?
Do we know ourselves? Do we believe we are special and deserve unconditional love? The bottom line for most of us is that we all want to be loved and accepted for who we are, actually for our real selves.
Vital to any adult’s living, loving relationships are what keep us sane. These relationships cam be formed on various levels, including platonic, spiritual and physical. Out of the three, physical relationships can be puzzling, frustrating, intense as well as emerging, comforting and freeing. Ask any normal adult and he/she’ll tell you the same, sexual compatibility is essential to the well-being of relationships. To a large extent, issues threatening a relationship seem small, if the rendezvous-in-bed is great. At least, one tends to connect with his/her partner at a certain level. But, another important thing that must be mentioned here is that there are various other factors that are as necessary as sex. Had it not been the case, every one-night stand would have turned into some sort of a relationship. Things like mutual admiration, respect for each other’s private space, commitment, balanced power-equations and support go a long way ensuring a well-cemented relationship. Like all men and women, all relationship advices are not created equal. What works for one might not work for another couple. But, hey, there’s a word of caution here, too. Do not slip into complacency, one must keep changing and trying different things. The surprise element works best on both women and men. Relationships are fragile and need to handled carefully. Once broken, they take a long time to repair and never be the same again.